Hey guys I know this is kinda jumping ahead in womanhood, but its good to get it in your mind now. Now I was in church tonight and this is a good sermon but some of us don't like sitting through a sermon so I'm not going to make it a sermon. One of things about being a godly wife is: the ability to see your husbands need through his point of view. That means that your not always going to see life the same way but instead of trying to understand his needs your way try to understand them his way, an it's going to take some team work but your marriage will work better that way. Another thing is: accepting responsibility for making the quality of home life acceptable for your husband. Which means if your not doing a very good job on keeping your house acceptable for your husband your kids or you then you need to take full responsibility. Now your husband can't expect it to be perfect all the time and your going to have your bad times but that doesn't you can't try your best and work hard. Next: cleanliness is next to godliness. Now husbands and wives have different standards and your gonna want different things but if you don't keep a clean house your always going to be running around and then your going to be tired and your both going to be on each other like cats and dogs. It messes up the fellowship between you two. Next thing: see that food is prepared and served. Now this doesn't mean you have to be the one cooking you just have to make sure that it gets prepared and served. Alright ladies i know this is not exactly what you want to hear but management falls to the lady of the house. Next: manage time so everyone is on time. Alright so your the base of time here if you don't make lunches on time then your kids or your husband will be late for school or work, and if there late everyone is rushing and yelling and you all just wanna kill each other and that is not a very stable home. work to make sure everything goes smoothly. lastly: appreciate but don't demand your husbands help. This means that like if your husband offers to help but don't demand that he does. It is your soul job that God has given you learn to love it. embrace Gods calling and love him enough to do it.

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